Is this a safe space to ask women a question?

I was talking to my partner recently about how I chose to lose my v card. I was raised in purity culture and after starting to deconstruct I became SO fearful of SA and losing my first time to that. The realities of the world and my exposure to SVU, csi as a kid came crashing down. My first time was with someone I considered a friend I trusted, rather than risking waiting that it would be traumatic.

Anyone else?

Trust me, I know how tempting it is to look up that Record Store Day release on eBay.. don’t do it!!! A lot of stores put up their stock on their websites on Sunday. Wait until then! I know it’s easier said than done. Don’t give the resellers the $$$

This is an absolutely miscellaneous guess based on no data but I think the amount of regular DR readers who expect/want similar darkness as noncon is about 40%

I feel like its time for a new phone wallpaper theme