Is this a safe space to ask women a question?
I was talking to my partner recently about how I chose to lose my v card. I was raised in purity culture and after starting to deconstruct I became SO fearful of SA and losing my first time to that. The realities of the world and my exposure to SVU, csi as a kid came crashing down. My first time was with someone I considered a friend I trusted, rather than risking waiting that it would be traumatic.
Anyone else?
I was talking to my partner recently about how I chose to lose my v card. I was raised in purity culture and after starting to deconstruct I became SO fearful of SA and losing my first time to that. The realities of the world and my exposure to SVU, csi as a kid came crashing down. My first time was with someone I considered a friend I trusted, rather than risking waiting that it would be traumatic.
Anyone else?