Okay what about a book where he’s the college hockey coach & she’s the PWHL player whose new expansion team is using their arena for practice / games. And his team is TERRIBLE, but she’s the one who constantly encourages him all while he keeps showing up to her games even though she’s way too outgoing for him, & somehow, with her support, his guys start winning…& when they make it to the frozen four, after they win, he brushes off an interview with ESPN to run to her and tell her he loves her?

I just saw a very nice luxury car drive by, however, the man was driving, and his wife,or girlfriend, was in the back seat. I had a neighbor as a kid who did that with his wife; he wasn’t a very nice person 

When your internal state stabilizes, things that used to feel urgent, personal, or threatening lose their emotional weight entirely.