成件事好癲

根本有好多人「超讀」晒樓主既意思做：
「佢好憎女人可以咁幸福」
「佢想引起兩性對立」

但明明一句都冇講過
佢只係表達出對於女性引人共情嘅能力好羨慕
比盡都係妒忌

從來冇講過任何一句女人係行緊Easy mode
「多一根 苦一生」
只係樓主表達自己作為男人，有任何痛苦都唔會俾人正視，根本冇講過啲痛苦係女人造成

最好笑係嗰個何文田金冬天（自稱）
喺度用自己收dick photo嘅事情嚟九唔搭八咁覆樓主
搞到樓主好似係send屌照俾佢嘅人咁
所以唔可以有人安慰

由頭到尾都冇人話女人冇屬於自己嘅問題
但依家個世界就係容不下男人吐任何苦
男人羨慕女人有某啲自己冇嘅嘢
就係攻擊女人

說好的打敗父權去咗邊？
定係大家怕冇咗父權帶比自己嘅好處
但係又唔想接受父權帶比自己嘅壞處？

樓主有冇攻擊女性嘅意圖我判斷唔到
亦都唔會過分解讀
但我好肯定佢前面幾句講得好啱
冇人care佢感受
因為佢係男人

The OP’s experience can be understood as shaped by toxic masculinity, rather than by women, and by the same logic, women’s difficulties are not caused by the OP

Framing it through comparison introduces an unnecessary gender dichotomy and misattributes the source of the problem

Both men’s emotional neglect and the kind of attention women receive are shaped by broader social norms, not by each other

As a woman, I don’t see this kind of attention as desirable, it’s uncomfortable or instrumental

Bringing women into the comparison isn’t accurate or constructive, and it naturally leads to defensiveness rather than empathy

Thus, the reason the OP isn’t receiving concern/why the discussion is unfolding this way, is not simply because he is male

Reducing it to that explanation is overly simplistic and doesn’t meaningfully contribute to understanding the issue

OP says "no one cares about men's feelings."
Toxic masculinity means men are required to act tough.
If women don't care about men's feelings
then those women are part of what reinforces toxic masculinity.
In fact, women are at least 50% the culprit of toxic masculinity.

Hello... "shaped by social norms" means some people actually hold those views. Social norms are not something that fall from the sky. In fact, many men are protesting about toxic masculinity and it's the women who continue to perpetrate those views and ignore men's feelings as if by entitlement. I'm glad you mentioned the term toxic masculinity but merely brandishing that term doesn't mean you actually understand it. It's a problem in the hearts and minds of people, men and women included.

所以樓主邊句講過係女性令佢有以上經驗？
「屋企人有錢真係好，我屋企咁窮，做乜都冇用」
你會唔會解讀做「拖有錢人落水，仇富」
「佢唔理解有錢人都有自己嘅問題」

就係唔可以解讀做，「佢都想屋企咁有錢？」
「佢覺得佢唔想出世係一個窮嘅家庭？」

羨慕女人相較男性容易被共情
就係有毒？
唔可以追求男女都一樣被共情？

男人追求好似女性咁樣被人共情
就會阻礙女性打到父權？