Why can't the Phillies play the Rockies all year?
Most people don’t lack confidence.
They lack a solid sense of self.
If you don’t know who you are, you’ll become whoever the room needs you to be.
Here’s how to develop a stronger sense of self:
1. Start telling yourself the truth
Notice where you perform, shrink, or people-please.
A strong identity is built on honesty, not approval.
2. Spend time alone without distractions. If you always need noise, validation, or input, you’ll never hear your own voice. Clarity requires silence.